YOUR FETISH
What does fetish mean to us?
Fetish is a way of life! Fetish means living out your desires and not hiding. Fetish means spending time with like-minded people, exchanging ideas and having fun.
As an association, we are open to (almost) all fetishes, regardless of whether they are leather, rubber, neoprene, PVC, puppy play, jeans or nappies. We do not judge, we accept your particular preferences. We only draw the line at anti-constitutional and banned symbols.
Kinks and practices such as BDSM, age play, role play, watersports, fisting – and much more – are also represented.
Exchange ideas with people about your interests, that's what our club is for. And to introduce and welcome beginners, newcomers and interested guys to the colourful and diverse world of fetish.
So what makes you a fetish guy?
You are when you know what you like, when you know what turns you on! But this is also a process and a development! It doesn't matter if your interests and likes change over time, if you keep rediscovering yourself!
You don't have to walk around in full gear every day
You don't have to have a wardrobe full of fetish gear
You don't have to come out to all your friends, family or employer
You don't have to have a perfect body (whatever that is!)
You don't have to be a certain age or own certain expensive brands
And above all: you don't have to know everything. We are here to answer questions and provide assistance – be it at one of our meets or privately.
Fetish does not equal sex
In common parlance, fetish is often associated with certain sexual practices, especially BDSM. Other practices, such as watersports or fisting, are also often equated with 'fetish'. However, fetish means more than sex and should not be equated with practices.
Rather, fetish means that you have a preference for a certain material, such as leather or rubber, for a specific outfit such as military, skinhead or even a certain type of man.
There is basically no inanimate object that cannot become a fetish: Feet, shoes, rubber, leather, rubber boots, but also cigarettes, balloons, nappies.
Why this is the case, why a fetish develops in one person and not in another, has not yet been clarified. However, fetishes are often things that create a physically pleasurable feeling for the fetishist, such as certain materials that can also be worn as clothing, like rubber or leather.
Uniforms symbolise power, masculinity and dominance, while leather can also express a special form of masculinity. Fetishes can be a vehicle for turning oneself into a different person. The banker who favours work gear, the suave guy in a skinhead outfit, the florist in black rubber.
Various fetishes are therefore often associated with role-playing games. You slip into a new role, as is also the case, for example, with pup play. Here the boundary to BDSM is sometimes blurred, but the role play does not have to include bondage or SM practices.
Just get in touch with us! Contact us via our social media or e-mail
hallo@rheinfetisch.de>.
You can find more information – albeit in German – about fetish or gay sex in general at:
